Hi. I’m a really genuine guy, 36 years old, who is married but looking to separate in near future, and need a good friend and lover (maybe in a similar situation) to help me through this difficult time, be my best friend and adviser, and most of all be patient and understanding.

Yes I am looking for “the one”, the elusive true love of my life – the one I can truly share lifes ups and downs with. Is that possible? I believe so. Without going into all the details, I have been disheartened by a 7 year marriage that from the start has been fraught with problems, and has led to bitterness now, where I feel trapped and longing for escape to find happiness. The problem in brief I have had to contend with is a very argumentative wife who has accused me of being unfaithful to her since our marriage started, and although you may be thinking she is right, I can put my hand on heart and say I have been faithful through years of accusations. There is an underlying mental illness behind the accusations, which is why I’ve tried to fight to keep the marriage for so long, but I’ve come to the point where I’m so unhappy, tired of arguing my innocence, and really feel my life is beginning to slip away, and I want to feel loved and wanted again.

In short, I was brought up in a very loving and quiet household, where I never witnessed my parents arguing and fighting and was brought up to be fairly quiet and sensitive. Therefore to be in a marriage where my wife is constantly wearing me down with bitter words and arguments is alien to me. I long for a gentle, caring person who I can look forward to coming home to in the evening and spending good quality time with, not someone who will wear me down after a long day to the point where I look forward to being at work more than home.

I feel bad about talking this way about my wife, but I am not being dis-respectful, but just trying to get across my point as to why I am looking for someone else, and that I have tried everything I could to make my marriage work. I am a very loyal and loving person – can open up my heart, be romantic, generous, caring and thoughtful, just so long as I can have a little in return.

As I said, I am looking for someone who will help me through my uncertain times, while being my friend and lover, and if you are in a similar position then I can help you too, and just be soulmates with the promise of a good future together. And patience as well, to take our time to sort ourselves out and be together. I need someone to help me through these times as just don’t feel I can make the move on my own. My wife has alienated me from my friends, and I lost my Mum last year and don’t feel I have anyone to help me or discuss things with.

I know what I am looking for, and when the person is right from the feelings I will have in my heart. I only have a few wishes as to whom I am looking for as follows:

I would like you to be white and English, between 18 and 40 years old, caring and thoughtful, and most of all truly loyal for the man in her life. I would prefer someone who is not an argumentative type, but will sort problems out calmly and politely, and always be easy to get on. Someone with a big heart, full of love and kindness to give, and wanting the same in return – someone who will share the duties around the house equally, so that we can work as a team, rather than against one another. I would prefer a non-smoker, or at least someone who will quit when they become my partner, as I really don’t like smoking.

I’m 5’8” tall, non-smoker, light drinker, slim, short brown hair, green eyes, clean shaven and always take pride in my appearance, and to be clean and smell nice.

Am I asking too much? I hope not. I am putting this ad on in a few places, so may not be right on your doorstep, but I am willing to search the country for my soulmate.

Do get back to me please if you would like to find out more or would like to chat. I am completely genuine, willing to go at any pace you like, and WILL REPLY to any responses I get with my contact number.

And finally please, please, only genuine women – no fakes or spam thanks.


Look forward to hopefully hearing from you soon xxx

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